What is safety;

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I do not know what this feeling is, which each one of us gets but can not escape. It ruins your proper will to live, and the way you perceive your surroundings; we feel empty and nauseous. Although we are privileged with blessings around us: family, health, friends, work, the pleasure of outings, and purchasing what we desire, but what is it that is missing, what is this one element that shoots sadness down every cell of your body.
It is the unhealthy relationships we have surrounding us, the need for a home; the yearning to have one person to save us and hug us until we are fixed and safe. Why is safety so hard to get nowadays.
All that we are hearing and feeling is giving us a sense of danger, is it really so hard to feel safe?
Does it require one person to achieve it, or is it more of an increase of brightness setting on one's cell phone, if it is too low you are not satisfied, and if it is too high; you are blinded. 
How do you reach a middle-ground and can still be satisfied; how do you adjust that?


As I see it, people get married because they have the need to feel loved and secure. They get married to achieve a sense of control, and a bonus comes along with the pleasures they receive, it is all about emotions at the end - this feeling, that feeling, and getting a handful of one feeling until you start getting scared of the next one, until intimacy means thin air and safety is a given which you stop appreciating, until you start being scared of distance, of loans or the ability to make ends meet. It is all based under one category; Safety. 
It is truly an underrated word and emotion. 

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